Hi there, I am back to ranting, for those who are new to me this is Rhyse's rants I write about life issues in my life, and then leave it open for you to voice your opinion.
Now today's rant is one that lays particularly close to my heart as I've seen it many times particularly in my family not to blacken anyone's name. But a common issue of cheating on your partner, which makes me sick, I cannot stand the thought. And recently I heard news of a certain someone which made me wonder, if you are happy in a relationship, why would you cheat? and Further more if you are happy cheating behind your partner's back why are you so afraid to be caught? Why don't you just buzz off and go to your stupid lifestyle? (now I am sorry to offend those who do like swinging and are happy doing so I just think its lame when someone in relationship is going behind their partner's back). In any case you have person A who is cheating on their partner who is person B. But for some reason Person A still wants to be with person B. SO they try to hide there little affair with person C, D and E, probably because they love their partner, (this is a possibility but I don't know what is inside those who cheat so I wouldn't know really what is inside their mind but looking from the outside is pretty lame). So if they really love their partner then why would they do something they know would hurt their partner if they knew. But still Person A gives into his/her lust, then covers it up from their partner person B.
All I want to know is if you know that cheating hurts your partner (which is so obvious but still people do it) why do they do it. I suppose Lust is a difficult thing to control but if you were really sorry wouldn't you at least admit to it? And if you really didn't want to hurt them why would you try and hook up consistently with random people? And if you are consistently hooking up with random people ( not that I'm condoning it), but why do you need to emotionally hang of someone who in reality you're lying to for your own needs?
I feel that lust is an issue, but if you truly love someone wouldn't you want to reserve yourself for that person? I mean you know that that cheating is going to hurt them, and give them grounds to leave you. But the person who is cheating is still lying to person B for some strange reason.
